A group of men talking over dinner in Bangkok.

The Other Bangkok

A Bangkok we chose with care and intention for you who long to immerse yourself in one of Southeast Asia's queer hearts.

Dates
24 to 30 March 2027
Duration
7 days, 6 nights
Group size
Up to 12
From
$2,390 USD
House
Private Pool House

About the trip

A week for queer men to connect, in a Bangkok we chose with care.

The concept is simple. Twelve guests at most share one private pool house in the heart of Sukhumvit, with a chef in the kitchen. You go out into the city by day and come home to the same sofa each night, so you can settle in and simply be whoever you are.

This is a city of sensory pleasures, hidden delicacies, and room to express yourself freely. The days are chosen with care, not stacked to fill time, with a local touch to most of what we do and the queer culture up close. A free day in the middle lets you take the week at your own pace.

Why Bangkok

Worth a whole week, not a stopover.

One of Southeast Asia’s queer hearts.

A city most trips only skim and transit.

Culturally rich, the whole year round.

Day 1

Welcome to Bangkok

  • Private airport transfer (BKK or DMK) to the house in the heart of Sukhumvit, where the trip leader meets the group.
  • Settle into the house, relax, and meet the rest of the group as they land through the day.
  • A welcome treatment to ease off the journey.
  • Welcome meeting covers how the week runs, local etiquette, queer safety, and the photo policy.
  • Chef welcome dinner at the long table, with full presentation.

Day 2

Elephants and fried chicken

  • A morning with the elephants at a sanctuary that treats them well, time to feed them and walk alongside.
  • Lunch is included on site with the animals; back at the house mid-afternoon.
  • Dinner at a Michelin-listed local fried chicken spot that feels like eating in a Thai household: no candlelight, no fancy soundtrack, just very good food.
Elephants at the sanctuary.
By Jesse Schoff
Dinner at the fried chicken spot.

Day 3

Cooking class, then sunset by the river

  • A morning wet-market tour and a Thai cooking class, where you eat what you cook.
  • A quiet afternoon at the house: pool and rest before the river.
  • A private longtail boat on the Chao Phraya at sunset.
  • Riverside dinner once the boat docks.
At the Thai cooking class.
The Chao Phraya at sunset.
By Bodin

Day 4

From a distinct neighbourhood to queer nightlife

  • A morning wander in an old merchant district: coffee, a pastry, a gallery.
  • A chef-led tasting menu reviving ancient Thai recipes and nearly forgotten ingredients.
  • Live Thai music at a traditional bar, then a drag show before midnight close.
  • Optional: stay out later with the group, or head back to the house.
Live Thai music at a traditional bar.
The drag show.

Day 5

A day to yourself

  • A late chef brunch at the house, no rush.
  • A free afternoon, with a list of vetted options on hand if you want one.
  • Optional sunset walk at a nearby park with the group, five minutes from the house.
  • Chef dinner with full presentation to close the day.
The pool and the house on the free day.

Day 6

A Thai story, farewell night

  • A slow morning at the house, a long breakfast.
  • A classic Thai lunch out in the Old City.
  • An afternoon at an interactive museum, a hands-on walk through Thai history and culture.
  • Farewell dinner at a renowned Thai restaurant in a century-old house.
The farewell dinner table.

Day 7

Bye bye Bangkok

  • Unhurried chef brunch together, the last meal.
  • A closing circle before the airport: a moment to thank the team and each other, and to leave a tip for the chef and crew if you would like to.
  • Departures across the day on your own time, with private airport transfers as needed.

The house

A private pool house in the heart of Sukhumvit.

One house for the whole week, tucked into a quietly chic neighbourhood. A private pool, a long table where the chef cooks and serves, and rooms enough for the group. It is where the week begins and ends each day: meals together, slow afternoons by the pool, the group in one place. The owner looks after it with real care, and it shows, which is partly why guests love it. The one thing it asks back: keep the nights gentle, so the neighbours stay friends.

What is included

In the price.

  • 6 nights in a private pool house
  • 9 chef-cooked meals at the house, plus 4 dinners out
  • Free-flow coffee, tea, and water at the house, with fresh fruit
  • A limited supply of alcohol at the house
  • All excursions, with entry fees and on-site payments covered
  • Airport transfers and all transport by private van
  • One massage per guest
  • 2 days of photographer coverage
  • Two trip leaders all week

What is not included

Bring this part yourself.

  • Flights to and from Bangkok
  • Travel insurance, which we require
  • A Thai visa, where it applies to your passport
  • Snacks and food outside the meals and excursions
  • Tips for the house staff
  • Personal spending

Price

Choose your bed.

Every price is the full trip, per person, all in. Pick what suits you and book the bed. The room you see is the room you get.

The Balcony King Room with its own ensuite bathroom.

Room style

A king bed and a sofa bed, with a balcony.

Make your choices above and your price appears here.

$500 deposit per person now, the balance later in two instalments.

Book this bed

A few questions

Things people ask about this trip.

What does the deposit cover, and is it refundable?

The $500 booking deposit secures your spot on the trip. It is non-refundable but transferable to a future Habibi Lads trip if your plans change, subject to availability. One exception: if you pay the deposit and the full balance within 24 hours of booking, the deposit is treated like any other payment and follows the standard cancellation terms, so an early cancellation can be fully refunded, deposit included.

When is the balance due?

After the $500 deposit, the balance is paid in two instalments: half 180 days before the trip and half 90 days before. We send a reminder before each. If you book during or after one of those windows, we charge the instalment that is already due right away, and anything still ahead follows the schedule. More detail is on our FAQ page.

What is the room situation?

There are three ways to room: a private room to yourself or with your companion, your own bed in a shared room, or a bunk in the shared bunk room. Some rooms have their own ensuite bathroom, others use a shared bathroom in the house. Pick what suits you in the bed picker above, and your specific room is confirmed before the trip.

Which airport should I fly into?

Bangkok has two airports: Suvarnabhumi (BKK), the main international hub, and Don Mueang (DMK), used mostly by budget and regional carriers. Either is fine, your private airport transfer is included from both, in and out. BKK usually has the widest choice of long-haul flights.

What time should I arrive on Day 1?

Aim to land by mid-afternoon, around 3 PM, so you have time to settle in before we gather for the welcome meeting at 6 PM and the chef’s welcome dinner that evening. If your flight lands later, do not worry, we will fold you in when you arrive.

What time should I fly out on the last day?

Departures are on your own schedule across Day 7, so book whatever flight suits you. The house checks out at 11 AM.

Do I need a visa for Thailand?

Most Western passports enter Thailand visa-exempt for tourism (currently up to 60 days), but the rules change and depend on your nationality, so always confirm against your own government before you travel. UK: FCDO travel advice. US: US Department of State. Australia: Smartraveller. Everyone else: check your own government or local consulate.

Do I need any vaccinations?

No vaccinations are required for the trip. We do recommend booking a visit with your travel nurse or doctor at least eight weeks before, in case they suggest anything for your circumstances. If you take prescription medication, please bring enough to last the whole trip. And for peace of mind, there are good hospitals and clinics close to the house.

What is the weather like, and what should I pack?

Late March is hot and dry, around 33 to 35 degrees. Pack light, breathable clothes, comfortable walking shoes, a hat, and sunscreen. Bring a pair of trousers or something that covers your legs and shoulders too, as some temples do not allow shorts.

How much spending money should I bring?

Most things are covered, so you only need pocket money. Around $30 to $50 a day is plenty for snacks, extra drinks, tips, and the odd personal treat.

Can I have more alcohol at the house?

Yes. We keep a limited supply at the house, and there is a 7-Eleven a short walk away if you would like more. One quirk of Thai law: shops can only sell alcohol from late morning to midnight, with a gap in the early afternoon.

Can we have a party at the house?

The house is a home in a residential neighbourhood, not a party venue, so there are no house parties and we keep the evenings calm and considerate of the neighbours. There is plenty of life by day and nightlife out in the city when you want it; the house is the place to land, rest, and connect.

How are dietary needs handled?

The chef cooks around your needs at the house, and we collect them on the pre-trip intake form. Out and about, upscale restaurants cater easily, but smaller local places may not, so for anyone with dietary restrictions we always arrange either food from the house or a nearby alternative. Nobody goes without.

How fit do I need to be?

Moderate fitness, but please read this honestly. You'll be on your feet most days: city walking, a market wander, time in tropical heat. The house is a multi-storey pool villa, and most of it, including many of the bedrooms, is reached by stairs. We don't have step-free access, and we aren't set up to provide personal care or medical supervision, so the week suits guests who are comfortably mobile and managing their own health independently. If you have a mobility or health concern, write to us before you book and we'll talk it through honestly. We would always rather have that conversation early than have you arrive to a week that doesn't fit.

Who runs the trip?

Two Habibi Lads trip leaders are with the group all week, with support on hand around the clock. You are never on your own in a new city.

Can I extend my stay before or after?

Of course. The trip itself runs to a fixed schedule, but plenty of guests add days in Bangkok or fly onward elsewhere in Asia. We are happy to point you in the right direction.

Do I need travel insurance?

Yes, it is required for every guest. The full detail is on our FAQ page.

General questions about Habibi Lads are on the FAQ page.